Gaslighting, Red Flags and Toxic People—What You NEED to Know
Are you dealing with a toxic relationship? Do you often feel manipulated, gaslit, or emotionally drained? Emotional abuse can be subtle, making it hard to recognize until it has taken a toll on your confidence and well-being.
Episode 4
In this episode of Self Defence for Women – Live an Empowered Life, Julie Waite and Dene Josham explore the complexities of toxic relationships and emotional self defence.
Understanding Toxic Relationships & Emotional Self Defence
They discuss how gaslighting, manipulation, and guilt-tripping can erode self-trust and why recognizing these behaviors is essential for personal well-being.
The conversation highlights the challenges of emotional self defence, particularly the impact of social conditioning, fear of conflict, and self-doubt.
Many people, especially women, are taught to prioritize others over their own boundaries, making it difficult to stand up for themselves.
This episode aims to empower listeners with the awareness and tools needed to recognize manipulation, reclaim their power, and set firm boundaries in relationships.
Recognizing Gaslighting & Manipulation
Julie and Dene break down the most common manipulation tactics, including:
Gaslighting: Making someone doubt their reality and perceptions.
Guilt-Tripping: Using blame and obligation to control behaviour.
Love Bombing: Over-the-top affection used to manipulate and gain control.
Emotional Blackmail: Threats and pressure to force compliance.
They also discuss why toxic individuals push boundaries and how to resist falling into cycles of manipulation.
Why Emotional Self Defence is as Important as Physical Self Defence
While physical self defence protects your body, emotional self defence protects your mind and self-worth.
Many people feel trapped in toxic relationships because they don’t recognize emotional abuse as a serious threat.
This episode helps listeners understand why standing up for yourself is not just important—it’s necessary for mental and emotional well-being.
Key Takeaways from This Episode
Listeners will gain insights into:
Recognizing toxic behaviours and why awareness is the first step.
Why emotional self defence matters just as much as physical safety.
How gaslighting leads to self-doubt and confusion—and how to break free from it.
Setting boundaries to protect your emotional space and well-being.
The dangers of love bombing and how it signals manipulation.
How social conditioning discourages women from asserting themselves—and why that needs to change.
Trusting your instincts when something feels wrong in a relationship.
The importance of standing up for yourself, even if it leads to conflict.
Reclaim Your Power & Protect Your Energy
By the end of this episode, you’ll have a deeper understanding of emotional abuse, manipulation tactics, and how to defend yourself against them.
You’ll also be encouraged to reflect on your own relationships and take actionable steps toward setting stronger boundaries and protecting your mental and emotional well-being.
Listen now to learn how to spot toxic behaviors, defend your self-worth, and create relationships that truly support you.
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